One particular memory I have was one spent at the neighbors house. I was maybe 6 or 7 years old at the time and completely obnoxious (imagine that!). The high school girl who lived next door was named Stephanie and I wanted to be just like her. She would often come over and talk with me about my day, let me pet her dog, Ollie, or just come by to give me a big hug. But one of the GREATEST things ever happened to me one summer afternoon…she asked me to come and “lay out” with her in the back yard. Wow, that was totally a cool older girl thing to do. Luckily my folks said yes, so over I trounced in my pink and black polka dot one piece with ruffles on the bum. I laid my towel out next to hers, she handed me a coke, turned on some music and there we laid. Heck, she even gave me some of her sun tanning lotion – you know, the kind that smells like coconut? I, of course, put entirely too much on, trying to be cool, and smelled like a beach vacation gone wrong. But she just smiled at me and told me how glad she was that I was there. After about 20 minutes, I was hot and sweaty and thinking to myself, “OK, so this is supposed to be a cool thing to do, but I’m SO HOT and SO BORED!” I think she could tell, so she started asking me questions. She asked me if I liked any boys at school, what my favorite color was, if I was going on any fun vacations that summer….such little small talk, but it meant the world to me. I remember walking home later that afternoon feeling so grown up, so important. All because she asked me to come and lay out with her for a couple of hours. Now every time I lay out I think about that day; it was the first day that I ever felt like a “big kid.” Just goes to show you that small gestures really do go a long way.

Oh my goodness such cuteness! The picture of her passed out in her diaper, and lounging in the pool are too much! You are going to be one tan mama!